If you have found yourself in the unenviable position of loving a man who is afraid to commit, you may wonder what you can do to make him love you so much he gets over his fear of commitment. Unfortunately there are no potions or spells you can invoke to make your intended love you as much as you love him, certainly not enough to commit a lifetime to you. All you can really do is learn the language of love he speaks, and grow together in your relationship. He may one day love you more than he fears saying, "I do," but the only thing you can really count on is how you respond in the relationship. Get to know the reasons behind his fear of commitment. If his parents divorced, he may still be processing the feelings of abandonment he may have felt, and may be unwilling to commit himself to risk being abandoned in the future.
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The first time I ever fell in love I hit the jackpot. Okay, maybe not exactly THE jackpot. I was 19 and I was in love, so, to me this guy could do no wrong. Not to anything food-related or anything like that. Although I hear this affliction is quite common these days. Anytime, I would even hint that I was even thinking about considering mentioning that we should make our relationship official or something this horrible thing would happen to him.
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Would you stay with someone you knew you would never commit to you? But still, it can be hard to leave someone you really like, especially if you hold onto that hope that eventually they will commit. Commitment-phobes tend to have a lot of short-term relationships and are serial daters.
Commitment can be a very scary thing for many young people, myself included. I am now at a stage in my life where I can be very committed, but I wasn't this way just a year or two ago. I was a young something dude with issues. I was a commitment-phobe who dated a lot of women with no intention of ever settling down. These commitment issues were not only exclusive to my love life, but also my professional life.