Getting to know someone who is shy can be a frustrating experience, especially if you don't know the reasons why that particular person is shy. In a dating situation you may read the signs wrong or not be able to judge if she is actually into you or interested. I've always been a shy girl myself, so below is some very good advice that I would give to people who would want to date a shy girl, as well as what has worked and what hasn't when someone was dating me. Before you even consider to date a shy girl or befriend her, it's important to understand that people are shy for their own reasons.
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It is easier to be a shy girl than a shy guy because men are still supposed to take the leadership when it comes to wooing. However, female timidity exacerbates all the difficulties for you. I will give instructions to gentlemen who wish to attract their humble matches. It is just a normal human quality that can be inborn or developed as the consequence of certain events in life. This also happens with women whose relatives were too strict towards them. Regardless of how bright and gifted they are, they remain insecure about themselves. Some ladies become uncertain about their worth because of the past psychological traumas.
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I'm writing this article as a follow up to the one I did on what's going on in the mind of guys who are shy and inexperienced with women. I got some feedback from women on that piece. Some said that they were shy with men and several of the points in it applied to their own situation. Others pointed out how shy women have their own struggles as well.